The Bungling Beginner's Guide To Effective Anal Foreplay
While a rising number of women today
have already tried stuff like anal sex, many of them have had truly
bad first-time experiences, and this was because their male partners
shoved it in without “preparing” them for action. According to
sex experts, the road to successful anal sex lies on doing the
appropriate forms of foreplay, which includes stuff like fingering,
rimming, analingus and “salad tossing”. Here's the bungling
beginner's guide to expert anal foreplay.
Anal
sex, just like regular sex, should be fun and exciting, and shouldn't
hurt. Just ask the lovely women you date at Brisbane Escort Girls,
and they'll perhaps tell you to use the lube!
Guys
should never forget to bring a lube with them, because when used, it
should basically feel like the girl just needs to poop. Water-based
lubes are preferred, as these help relax the lady's butt muscles, and
allows the area to breathe too.
The
Tip Should Be The Only One That Goes In
For
guys who are into anal sex for the very first time, they should
remember that the nerve endings that they're trying to stimulate are
in the anus, and their manhood shouldn't go way up, as this can be
quite painful for the lady.
Men
should think of a girl's butt as if it were a basketball hoop, with
the ball (or the guy's penis) just rolling around the rim of the
basket, and not actually making the basket! Thus, everything that
goes in should be just the tip, and nothing further.
No
Rapid-Fire Movement Should Occur Immediately
If
your barometer for sex is the stuff you see on porn movies, then
you're going to encounter a lot of trouble with your partner in bed,
especially when it comes to anal play. In porn flicks, sex is just
done way too fast, but the truth is that anal play has to be prepped.
Hence, any rapid-fire movement or jamming of fingers in the butt or
vagina should not immediately happen.
It
Feels Much Better When There's Additional Stimulation Done
Anal
sex should definitely feel way better, if there's some additional
stimulation done elsewhere. For example, the stimulation could be
vaginal, clitoral or
on the woman's nipples. And while some women feel perfectly okay with
anal stimulation alone, many women cannot get an orgasm from plain
anal stimulation.
And
according to Ian Kerner,a noted sex expert and author of the book She
Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, foreplay
and extra stimulation of the other sensitive areas in the woman's
body adds to the overall experience, and makes women get more
frequent orgasms.
But
before you head deeper down south, make sure you ask your partner, or
the lovely Brisbane Escort Girls you
date, if they feel comfortable with anal sex.
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