The Bungling Beginner's Guide To Effective Anal Foreplay

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While a rising number of women today have already tried stuff like anal sex, many of them have had truly bad first-time experiences, and this was because their male partners shoved it in without “preparing” them for action. According to sex experts, the road to successful anal sex lies on doing the appropriate forms of foreplay, which includes stuff like fingering, rimming, analingus and “salad tossing”. Here's the bungling beginner's guide to expert anal foreplay.

The Activity Should Not Hurt
Anal sex, just like regular sex, should be fun and exciting, and shouldn't hurt. Just ask the lovely women you date at Brisbane Escort Girls, and they'll perhaps tell you to use the lube!

Guys should never forget to bring a lube with them, because when used, it should basically feel like the girl just needs to poop. Water-based lubes are preferred, as these help relax the lady's butt muscles, and allows the area to breathe too.

The Tip Should Be The Only One That Goes In
For guys who are into anal sex for the very first time, they should remember that the nerve endings that they're trying to stimulate are in the anus, and their manhood shouldn't go way up, as this can be quite painful for the lady.


Men should think of a girl's butt as if it were a basketball hoop, with the ball (or the guy's penis) just rolling around the rim of the basket, and not actually making the basket! Thus, everything that goes in should be just the tip, and nothing further.

No Rapid-Fire Movement Should Occur Immediately
If your barometer for sex is the stuff you see on porn movies, then you're going to encounter a lot of trouble with your partner in bed, especially when it comes to anal play. In porn flicks, sex is just done way too fast, but the truth is that anal play has to be prepped. Hence, any rapid-fire movement or jamming of fingers in the butt or vagina should not immediately happen.

It Feels Much Better When There's Additional Stimulation Done
Anal sex should definitely feel way better, if there's some additional stimulation done elsewhere. For example, the stimulation could be vaginal, clitoral or on the woman's nipples. And while some women feel perfectly okay with anal stimulation alone, many women cannot get an orgasm from plain anal stimulation.

And according to Ian Kerner,a noted sex expert and author of the book She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, foreplay and extra stimulation of the other sensitive areas in the woman's body adds to the overall experience, and makes women get more frequent orgasms.

But before you head deeper down south, make sure you ask your partner, or the lovely Brisbane Escort Girls you date, if they feel comfortable with anal sex.

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